I sat bolt upright in bed when I read this by Ruth Vaughn, 'Write to Discover Yourself' and had to catch my breath:
“For the greatest hurdle a beginning writer must overcome is the one he sets for himself: perfection.”
Yes, that’s it! It raises its ugly head even in my writing!
Perfectionism freezes my fingers and stifles my spirit.
I remember this in writing in my journal for high school English teachers. I was so concerned that my grammar, handwriting, and spelling were correct I crushed any hope of creativity.
I could write a research paper and usually give exactly what was expected in college, but when I came across some of these essays when unpacking in recent years I realized how uncreative they were!
It is still my struggle.
Yet, as I scratch away in journals because I find that I need to write to spill out inner struggles and thoughts and emotions, I see I have begun to do what I read here:
“My challenge to you is to approach the diary/Journal as your best friend in the world. You can pour out things here you might not dare to say to anyone else . . . Just pound out whatever comes to mind as quickly as you can. And the more you write, the better: the more release it will give you; the more insight it will provide; the more accurate will be the record when you come back later to reread and learn from it truths that will enrich self-understanding and that you may be able to share with others.”
~Ruth Vaughn, 'Write to Discover Yourself'
You will find the rest of the series, Write to Discover Yourself: My Story His Glory, here.
It is a series of posts of sharing what I am learning in Ruth Vaughn’s book, 'Write to Discover Yourself'.
It is a series of posts of sharing what I am learning in Ruth Vaughn’s book, 'Write to Discover Yourself'.
Oh my -- perfection! Yep -- that's THE word!!! Great posts.
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DeleteI could have written this post too. I was frozen with fear (in writing and in other ways) in high school and in college. Terrified of making one little mistake. I so appreciate this post, and that I'm not alone in the perfectionism trap! I love your line, "perfectionism freezes my fingers and stifles my spirit." So true. Thanks so much!
ReplyDeleteIt is so crippling! Thanks for sharing - and we must not be alone!!
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